Marriage & Motherhood, Work & Life

My Best friend’s wedding

Am so happy and thrilled.My best friend is getting MARRIED.

Am slightly apprehensive too…My BEST FRIEND is getting married.

Here is my all time favorite friend,the one who respected me for the woman I am,..Here is the guy whose mere presence would make my smile wider,the guy who has been with me for almost a lifetime now.15 yrs would be too short to call as a lifetime relationship,but i am only 30 and he shared half of the life span πŸ™‚ The best of those memories flash across when I scribble down this post. From the time we met, he has been there all throughout to make my life a pleasant journey. Without any second thoughts, I could run into him anytime,any weather to share the happiness,sorrow or even the silliest gossip. We devise crazy schemes, talk ultimate non sense, laugh at ourselves & others,fight on who looks older and would tolerate each other sing for hrs.. We are two extremely bad singers and so the degree of tolerance is a bit higher than it actually seems.And yes, all these yrs its me who needed him more than he did. And now its time to share him, a major part goes to her ofcourse πŸ™‚

Am sure most of us would have had this phase at some point during our best friend’s wedding or a favorite cousins marriage or someone of that sort. I still remember him mentioning how sad he was, when he was happy about my marriage getting fixed after a lot of drama πŸ™‚ Well that part was quite easier as husband grew fond of him.

So there I too am,…

Befriending someone has never been difficult so far πŸ™‚ SO am hoping she would soon be my friend too. Sharing some lovely little secrets about him would do the task.I am good at that.If they had been anywhere closer,I would have invited them home already.Fingers crossed!!They would be able to pay us a visit soon.

But he is getting married,and it is for the good.Things will never be the same for us,and I have tuned into that music already.The fear is about feeling out of place next time I meet him.Fear is whether she would accept us the way we are.I do not like to be the pain on anyone’s ass for that matter.So if she will not be comfortable,I would have to put my foot down and step out of it. God forbid that wouldn’t happen,because…

…because we are meant to be together and now,we would rock with our families.Need to do some shopping now,for I have to be at my best while witnessing the most beautiful moment of his life.And now that am all geared up,I just hope the new job wouldn’t become another hurdle to attend the function that am eagerly looking forward to, for if I do he wouldn’t let me live to write another post πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚


19 thoughts on “My Best friend’s wedding”

  1. Happy post πŸ™‚ felt good and something happy in it… after several years i will be in this position, just gave a thought πŸ™‚ heart goes hard πŸ™‚
    life is all about having good time and enjoying love and care πŸ™‚
    hmm super post πŸ™‚
    get ready for the festival πŸ˜›

  2. soo lovely Z….this is the best wedding gift i could ask for……since you have already given it, i expect some thing else for my wedding :)))……i expect expensive presents along with your presence πŸ™‚

  3. lemme get this straight-you are a girl and ur best friend is a guy? and now he’s getting married. I’m sorry, but u better prepare yourself for some tough times ahead. It will be tough for any new bride to accept a close female friend. I am not saying it wont be ok, but u must give her some time to be completely secure in her man first. And for a while you’re gonna have to get used to being 2nd in ur best friends life.

    1. Yes yes..If he was a she , i wudnt have had this problem in the first place..But yes you are right,and thanks for those warm words..I wouldn’t mind giving her time at all.I wudn’t mind him getting married,thats for the good..I wudnt mind being 2nd in his life..I only worry about loosing him,which god willing,wudn’t happen..

  4. I’m sure ull try n make her as comfortable. Reminded me of my best frnd who is a guy, guess Ill feel the same soon πŸ™‚

    1. Yeah..This is always bound to happen when your BF is of the other gender..It is the insecurity within which suddenly raises the head,..But marriage is for the good and is supposed to happen to him as much as it happened to us,..And nothing would happen,cos all that started well,should end well, right?

  5. you are right Z.. you know I’m already friends with my BF’s girlfriend but itseems she is little insecure so I keep my d

  6. distance. We get along well though, and I hope they get married soon so it ends her insecurity πŸ™‚ And ya, my husband is

  7. Today. My best friend with whom I also shared 2/3 of my life span with is getting married. I sang a song, I played the piano at their wedding — as he asked me to. Now I’m home. Feeling more miserable than before. Feel like missing my other half. So, I was browsing for similar emotions through google. Hoping this feeling I have is normal.

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