So who can tell how important a job is for a woman?
One who has a job? Na. She will not understand how one who doesn’t have a job feels.
What about the one who doesn’t have a job? Mmmm, not sure. She might not know how the real time office would be.
What about one who is looking for a job? Well, not really…
So what about the one who had a job, resigned from it, now looking for one and not getting it? Yeah, this one can. Because this one is me.
4 yrs of work, 2 yrs of work-home balance,1 yr of work-home-baby balance, resignation, 2 months rest and then 4 months of unfruitful job hunt (Recession – Grr!!) . Who could be better qualified than me?
But know what? This step of resignation and home management gave me an essential growth on the personal front because I realize how important the job was for me. It helped me realize how women who sit at home for a whole day feel like. Oh my resignation was so willful for I too thought I needed a small break after 7 yrs..
Throughout my career life, I have grumbled about the work load, criticized my managers, groaned at office politics, frowned at fellow colleagues, grieved at my compensations, fought for appreciations, protested for recognition, complained about not being able to leave early to home, and back home I would be whining about all that I have to do. When housewives shared their views on how they love to work, I would encourage but still tell that it is difficult for you have to do all that you have to do at home and work would be an additional responsibility. It sounded a lot sensible then because career seemed to be a financial support for husband and financial independence for me. This break was an eye opener, for I now realize that my job means a lot more than money.
I understand the frustrations of a house wife, for their world has only the husband and children. Their day start and end on the same note. Life becomes a routine after sometime and the boredom makes them exhausted. Everything seems disinterested and dull. The husband who comes back from work is the only person who they can talk to and you cant blame them. The husband thinks the wife is nagging over the silliest of the things and wife doesn’t understand why he thinks so and then PROBLEM!!Yes, jobless world can be a problem….
Work may be tiring , but it would change the environment at home..
I feel every woman who is willing to work should try it for once and every man should allow her to, because professional and personal life are not separate. Am sure a lot of you wouldn’t agree, but I have my reasons to believe so… A job need not necessarily be going to office and working (though thats lot of fun), but to do something that would divert the thoughts from ‘family’ world and keep occupied. A sister of mine started doing craft work from trash to keep herself occupied.
- to step out of your home, atleast for a few hours.
- to meet other people, young and old
- to keep you occupied and forget the tension at home, if any
- to escape from the boring normal daily chorus
- to stay fresh the whole day
- to share your thoughts with others and hear their views
- to realize that there is a world outside home
- to know that you are better than a lot of people
- to know that you are still to catch up with a lot other people
Above all, it gives you another goal where you can look forward to, focus and grow. Growth in life earns happiness and peace. Happiness definitely reflects in your personality and helps you grow more for the better. It gives you a space to know yourself better. It would only create a better YOU!!
So if you are a working woman and still apprehensive like I used to be once, then stop!! You are having a blissful life.